Should I Keep Waiting For The Right Man? Rebecca St. James Shares Her Story

Every woman wants to find the right man, but finding your forever-after prince isn’t always so clear cut. We wonder whether he’s out there, how long it’ll take to find him, and if we’ll even recognize him when the moment arrives. We can even get so frustrated with the wait that we might be tempted to settle for a good man, but not the right man. But is it worth waiting for the right one?

According to Christian singer and songwriter Rebecca St. James, it definitely is. She joins Darlene Brock and Julie Bender on This Grit and Grace Life podcast to chat about her own dating journey and how she ultimately found her husband (and knew he was “the one” almost instantly).

They also discuss what character traits to look for in the right man, how you can stay committed to the values you set for yourself without settling, and whether you’re giving too many husband privileges to a boyfriend that won’t commit.

Rebecca St. James headshot Rebecca St. James is a GRAMMY-winning Christian singer/songwriter, author and speaker. She is also the host of her own podcast, called Rebecca St. James Friends and Family, where she discusses marriage and parenting as a wife and mom of three. You can follow Rebecca on Instagram @rebeccast.james, on Facebook @RSJames or on her website at rebeccastjames.com.

Quote of the episode:

“There was this soul connection where it’s like he has the same spirit, same values, same heart, same true, core desires in life.” —Rebecca St. James on finding her husband